kettyo
Seeker of Reality
A good deal that brings you "traded with our worst enemy" demerits from half the world isn't necessarily so good.
I like and would miss this aspect of the game.
Alliance politics is a good part of Civ4 diplomacy.
I actually like you just can't be in good terms with everyone. It's almost certain you'll have some conflicts in every game (with enough civs).
Overall my favourite strategy game is Master Of Orion but this is the only major flaw there. In MOO you can do easily to be peaceful with everyone while they kill each other and you can win a diplomatic victory very easily.