Roland Johansen
Deity
I've noticed something similar with this build...top tercile in power but a lot of ganging up on me. My guess was that the AI has been bribing other AIs to go to war against me, based on the timing of the declarations. Is that possible in your case? I found I couldn't bribe anyone to join in on my side, so I've modified my "avoid adopting a religion" diplomatic strategy (which coupled with a strong military used to allow me to avoid wars altogether) to one where I try to adopt the religion of a few hopefully stalwart allies. It seems to have worked out better, but I don't have a very large sample size so it could be coincedence.
Darrell
Sharing borders is also a pretty prominent factor. If you turn on chipotle, you can see how the AI feels about going to war with each civ, to see if you really are on the top of the list, or if you are just unlucky in the random rolls.
-Iustus
My guess is that it was a combination of factors in my game. Of course the aggressive AI setting caused the AI to declare many wars. I don't know if the betterAI team has already 'fixed' the negative diplomacy modifier of the AI versus the human player at this setting. But if this hasn't changed yet, then that could be part of the cause as well.
The reason that they picked me the most was at first because I was weaker (you start weaker at emperor level than the AI nations who start with some units and some military technologies). Next a religion spread among a number of other civilizations but it hasn't spread to my lands yet. So some of them share a religion and I have no religion. I could pick a different religion, but then they would hate me even more. So they like eachother more. There is one nation with a different religion but most of the AI civilizations don't know him.
Another reason is that I'm positioned at the center of these nations. So I'm bordering all of them. That means that if one of them declares war on me, then I'll be an attractive target for the next.
There's not a lot that I can do about it as long as their religion doesn't spread to my lands, so it feels a bit unfair. But it is actually quite reasonable, except that I've been quite unlucky with the position and the spreading of the religion.
I don't know if I will continue this game now. I've survived their determined attacks and have outexpanded them because the AI expanded too slow in this build. So I'll probably start a new game with the new build. I expect to win the present game because I have more than double the amount of cities of my strongest competitor.