Another Relationship Advice Thread

[Winner]

I'm strongly tempted to just find a good moment in private and kiss her but I'm not sure if that's such a good idea. My problem, as I said, is that I really don't know how to start a relationship. In the very few times I dated the circumstances were very different. My experience with other-than-sober flings is obviously irrelevent here. I just don't know what kind of move to make. I'd appreciate some suggestions.

I've tried this and it failed. And what was worse, it was totally awkward and embarrassing She stoped talking with me for few weeks. Even after that time, we haven't talked about it, we both simply pretended nothing has ever happened. :suicide:

Can't recommend this, but it's your choice.

She does listen to me intently but she seems to be a generally intent listener (her favorite activity is just talking with people.) I don't think it would be possible for her to light up when I enter the room since she's pretty much always smiling. I do get the feeling that she smiles at me especially intensely but I've been known to have distorted judgement when it comes to girls I like . I didn't know about when I talk to another girl... I don't usually get a chance to gauge her reaction while I'm talking with someone else...

Ahh, I know what you mean

My experience with this kind of girls isn't very good. I am now following a simple rule: "If you think she likes you, you're a foolish idiot."

 

[Fifty]

As for the "just going for the kiss" thing... you just gotta read the girl to see if she wants it. Girls throw clues at you constantly as to whether they are romantically interested.