i have done Civ's 1 and 3 before this, i made the mistake of trying Civ 5 before 4 so now : Civ 4 looks "sloppy" by comparison and , i can't get started in it. From what i gather ,however , it seems like all the other civ's had a slightly different thing going on. The AI eventually backing off on the vitriol after a war had ended ,and , the non-involved AI's detaching from the hate party pretty much as soon as the dust settled. Should there be a patch , or , mod to adjust it back to "the good ol' days"? I guess its a matter of taste. For me , i think it would help greatly with immersion if there was a way, any way at all , to ever get an AI to forgive you for anything ever.