So you did the process of:
- Start Game
- Click Advanced
- Click Load a Mod
- Select AOE from the list and load it.
And it didn't work? Ok, that's bad. Does the mod even show up in your list at all?
Also check your Ashes of Erebus folder to make sure you don't have a situation like this:
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If this is in fact not the case and you have everything installed correctly try the option I use to start the mod. Create a shortcut for the main CIV4BTS.exe and edit that shortcut to add this bit at the end:
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Starting that shortcut should start the game with the mod loaded. Also, make sure you are running CIV4 as an administrator.