CiV is not a history simulator as much as it is a game with a historical theme. Balance comes before adding a bit of flavor.
Implementing something similar to WHEOOHRN (onomatopetic, is it not) would help with a part of the cases, increasing the cost would help to the degree of the increase in all cases. Both of these are a major improvement on the current state of the game.
I see it as a balance between exploitation where the AI do what you want or pose no threat on the one hand and total enmity where the AI ignores you and try to destroy you on the other. In the middle between these poles there is room for meaningful diplomacy
What made the diplomacy more interesting for me in Civ IV was that friendships was more lasting and important and that war was riskier and more profitable. Sometimes you got a surprise DoW and a doomstack walks all over your cities if you have not prepared (except when they just stand around and wait for their 1 catapult to lower the defenses lol). If you could grab some good land, war was an excellent idea and almost necessary to win at the highest levels. In Civ V war is easier but the gain is more ambiguous. Diplomacy by other means is my favourite type of diplomacy =)
Implementing something similar to WHEOOHRN (onomatopetic, is it not) would help with a part of the cases, increasing the cost would help to the degree of the increase in all cases. Both of these are a major improvement on the current state of the game.
I see it as a balance between exploitation where the AI do what you want or pose no threat on the one hand and total enmity where the AI ignores you and try to destroy you on the other. In the middle between these poles there is room for meaningful diplomacy
What made the diplomacy more interesting for me in Civ IV was that friendships was more lasting and important and that war was riskier and more profitable. Sometimes you got a surprise DoW and a doomstack walks all over your cities if you have not prepared (except when they just stand around and wait for their 1 catapult to lower the defenses lol). If you could grab some good land, war was an excellent idea and almost necessary to win at the highest levels. In Civ V war is easier but the gain is more ambiguous. Diplomacy by other means is my favourite type of diplomacy =)