About seeing own leader, I think there should be able to do so with diplomatic or special menu (a.k.a. "throne" room) I don't sure about modifying appearance through, I wouldn't care much about what cloth my leader wear.
BTW, I wish there would have some kind of eerie faint background in every leader to reflect the faction itself and affinity. Current background blur diplomacy doesn't impress me at all.
pretty sure the leaders change as their affinity develops
Yeah that would be an interesting addition, but im more interested in deep immersive gameplay, hence i voted not really needed even though i do think it would be cool..
I think this is the key issue; there's really no useful game interface in which showing your own leader makes sense. You could add a superfluous throne room or leader stats screen, but it would be just that -- superfluous. The only idea that comes to mind is a sort of Master or Orion style diplomacy screen where you see the back of your own leader's head while talking to the foreign leader, but it's clear they're not going to do that (and I doubt it would be compelling if they did).However, I feel that we need some sort of "excuse" to show him/her. Just a non-functional throne room screen with the leader in it will not be used very often. (Other than to jerk off. Just mentaly, of course!)
I think this is the key issue; there's really no useful game interface in which showing your own leader makes sense. You could add a superfluous throne room or leader stats screen, but it would be just that -- superfluous. The only idea that comes to mind is a sort of Master or Orion style diplomacy screen where you see the back of your own leader's head while talking to the foreign leader, but it's clear they're not going to do that (and I doubt it would be compelling if they did).
How about a planetary council screen?
Personally I would be happy even with a Superfluous Throne room as you say.
I really don't mind and I can see it being shown to us every time the player completes a milestone in his chosen affinity. But even a button to enter the throne room , hell even a pause screen. or a save screenshot would be nice.
After the first few playthroughs, you'll have seen all the affinity/faction combinations, and it will cease to be novel or interesting. I don't see the point of a leader screen unless there's some kind of player-controlled customization.