Oracle HBR for an HA rush only to not get horses? That'll pretty much cost you the game. Oracle HBR on the way to an elepult rush with only 2 cities? Good luck.
It only makes sense to go for Oracle early if you have lots of hammers but not much early commerce and no pressure to block land. But the Oracle pays off best if you can oracle something expensive (requiring you to have high early commerce anyway, which reduces your need for the free beakers) and trade it around effectively (usually meaning numerous nearby AIs, which means you need to concentrate on blocking land).
Good to see some progress!
I don't know why you're building Archers ...Trading Archery for Animal Husbandry wasn't really necessary - you don't need Archery at all on this map... avoid trading for small useless techs because it means that AI will trade less techs with you later on.
For example, open borders with Shaka, and put down a road to his city in the near future so your research will be faster.
is a road always required for trade? doesn't my river connect us?
I guess the uselessness of archery was lost on me. is it because deity requires a focus on offensive tech?
is a road always required for trade? doesn't my river connect us?
where can I look to identify what commerce is coming from what routes in my city?
Stop dotmaping on deity You can never be all that sure which sides you get in the end and it will discourage you, if you dotmap all your nice spots by 3000 BC and they will be taken by 1800 BC... Dotmaping is for learning the very basics imo.