I am rather disappointed myself, I shouldn't have to buy a new great gaming laptop every 5 years just to play the latest Civ.
That's the cost of progress I'm afraid Chris. 5 years is actually a decent upgrade interval compared to most gaming folks. You should consider yourself fortunate Civ is your only vice!!
Ok, another question. For the 17" Alienware laptop, for just playing Civ6 and absolutely not caring about any other gaming, for a GPU is the GTX1060 6Gb overkill vs the GTX970M which is 3Gb? Price delta is $200. Or will the higher end GPU make stuff like Turn Ends a lot faster and be tons better in other ways? The 4K screen does not seem worth the extra price vs the 1920x1080 fhd screen, but maybe I'm wrong there.
Turn times are effected by CPU and you need to be pretty careful here when purchasing as these can vary widely between laptop models. Either GPU is sufficient to play Civ but both the GTX1060 and 4k screen are much more future-proof and definitely something to consider with an average 5 year turnover rate. You'll be getting the value they offer when more media is available in 4k, for example, giving the device a new utility function. Plus, you have Steam now. How will you react when you log in and some game that might be worth a go is only 15bux in a sale? Are you truly *that* disciplined?
Just some food for thought!