FOR PEOPLE THAT ARE CAUTIOUS AND BELOW FOR REPUTATION:
New idea for diplomacy, and this will REALLY cause people to consider a bit more. When you are confronted and asked for tribute, if a person ABOVE you in score asks for it, and you give it to them, everybody loses a point of reputation for you, because of "You are a bit of a pushover", and you get +1 with them. If you don't give it to them, people whom are worst enemies with that person AND/OR are friendly with you will get a +1 saying "You told (civ guy's name) off!", and the -1 from the demanding civ.
If a person BELOW you in score asks for it, and you give it to them, then you lose 2 points of reputation for same reason, and they give you +2. If you don't give it, people whom are worst enemies with him AND/OR are friendly will NOT give you ANY reputation points, and they -1 with you.
DEMANDERS THAT ARE POLITE AND/OR FRIENDLY TO YOU:
If a friendly or polite civ asks you and is above in score, and you give it to them, people that are polite with him AND you or are friendly to one and polite to the other will give you a +1 as "We are glad to see two of our friends getting along". If they are friendly to both, you get a +2, and your enquirer will also gain a +1 no matter what. If not, you don't lose ANY REPUTATION POINTS FROM ANYBODY aside from the person asking for help, just -1 from that person.
If a friendly or polite civ asks you and is below in score, and you help them, you don't get any reputation points up from anybody except for the person that asked, and you get a +2. If you don't help them, then they -1 from you, and nothing else happens.
I realize how complicated this seems, and if anybody has any questions they could reply to this or PM me, if anybody will lol. I think this would really had a huge twist on diplomacy demands, and people will actually have to think much harder. Would love to see this implemented

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-Teddy
