Why would you be hopeful when your agency is removed bit by bit?
I dunno, I think irrational hope is built into our DNA, after our ancestors survived despite the odds over & over & over again.
Also, we don't know the future, change in inevitable & at times when things seem hopeless & people seem incurable dumb sometimes something unpredictable happens (like the renaissance from the dark ages)
People can tell when they aren't doing anything they care about and are largely unnecessary. Especially if "population is the problem." Especially if society tells you this, constantly.
I don't think society ever says that. It seems to say, just keep on it, even if it feels pointless, and don't forget to buy stuff along the way.
The far-right 'depopulation' conspiracy theories suggest the elites are gonna phase out the common man/woman once their labor is no longer needed & honestly I can see why people believe this. The average person @ the average job is expendable.
But the problem is deriving meaning from one's job, that's gonna have to be expanded. Which could be a positive thing.
That things would all be going better if you'd never been here to worry about.
That's a psychological thing, I don't think society would particularly be better or worse without me personally.
With an in-group, you can shrug that off easier.
Yeah it's always been the case, for fear of death you have religion, for fear of outsiders you have xenophobia, etc.
But yeah modern isolation & ability to immerse 24/7 in 'communities' has made people's attachment to these groups more intense.
If I am any indication, you begin to watch weird YouTube videos about cults, movie reviews, while developing an odd urge to incessantly talk politics so as to distract yourself.
It's not great, really.
I think there's a support group for those type of fanatics.
Funny 'place' though, people don't know it's a support group and often spend hours yelling at each other.
Closing in on waking up 1500 times without being happy about it. And I've had more help than I deserve.
Sorry.
What is 'deserve'?
I think many of us don't get enough as kids & then feel guilty when we can't 'take in' support later on. In many ways I've been f-ed pretty bad in life, in other ways I've been spoiled. It's just luck of the draw, no point to feel bad about what good you've received.