Do you stare?

look, yes. stare, no

to really stare at a woman seems impolite and a bit creepy to me. But to look at her a bit longer than absolutely necessary can't be a bad thing :)

Igloo said:
Nothing wrong with smiling at any girl! In fact, the ones that aren't as pretty are the ones most likely to smile back, in my experience.
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and a smile lights up the face of almost any girl, enhancing their beauty :)
 
Women? What are women?

I don't get out much, so no, I don't stare.
 
steviejay said:
I stare all the time, there are some very attractive women around and I enjoy the distraction.

I went for lunch with a friend today and by GOODNESS I could do nothing but stare. hope she didn't notice....
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did you drool??? apparantly they tend to notice that.....

it depends, on my level of drunkness, i tend to stare more when drunk. When sober i tend to take more of a glance.
 
The good thing about being a tall guy is the fact that I can be talking to a woman yet be staring at her an she would not notice. Generally when you to stare at someone, you have to be discret because you can get into trouble doing so.
 
I don't stare most of the time. I just glance now and then. But sometimes the girl I'm looking is so attractive, I can't help but to keep eye contact for just a bit longer.
 
I do that eye flirty thing nowadays, where you make eye contact for a little "too" long (i.e. longer than a passing glance, but not long enough for it to be creepily intense). Nothing wrong with smiling at a pretty girl!
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:lol: I do that too. If I stare, she'd get creeped and just stop "noticing" me as well. However, if nobody is really around or paying attention and her backside is facing me, I'll stare but be ready to look in another direction :D .
 
classical_hero said:
So you would be staring at her hair then? ;)
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Of course not!
I always and only look at the shoes! To appreciate how the heel is cut. :lol: ;)
 
I don't stare, I sneak. I don't like it when people look at me, I'm under the impression that's because there's something wrong, a piece of salad in my teeth, my zipper's open, etc. That's why I don't blatantly stare.
 
No Way. I certainly don't stare, it's somewhat disrespectful and could have unpleasant consequences if caught. If I notice somebody, that's fine great now I’ll go about my business like it never happened. Hey, if they happen to walk into my field of vision again all the better, but there is no sense staring/looking at directly nothing good would ever come of it.
 
I wouldn't say I stare but I do take in all i can visualy. And If im noticed I dont stop. I give a sly grin out one side of my mouth and a little wink. More often then not this results in a blush and shy turn of the head. Flirting is fun.
 
I have picked up the technique of appearing to stare out the window right next to them (as I see more women on the subway than anywhere else) but that might be really obvious. I had a coworker catch me sneaking glances at a customer who had come into the office - I have to be careful there, but I doubt she noticed.
 
Chukchi Husky said:
That would just make it worse.
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You're more of a "the glass is half empty, but it doesn't matter because I can't drink it anyway, and besides it is about to fall off the table and I'll get blamed for knocking it off and have to clean it up and will cut myself on the broken glass" kind of guy than a regular "half empty" guy, aren't you?
 
I would type something myself but Eran managed to sum upp my thoughts pretty much.
Eran of Arcadia said:
I will sneak glances from time to time, although to a certain degree it is actually frustrating to see an attractive woman - given that I probably couldn't get a girlfriend to save my life. So I am torn between looking away and looking at her. I hope women don't mind.
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I only stare when wearing dark sunglasses. It is quite an art to keep your head pointing in the direction you are walking, while your eyes are almost popping out of your head and still not walk into anything.

However, without sunglasses, I will admit to looks and glances.
 
I'm a lifeguard, meaning my job is to watch everyone in the pool. We're supposed to scan our entire zone within 10 seconds. As long as I can still do that, and can genuinely watch everyone else in the pool, the time I would normally spend making sure a woman isn't drowning can be spent appreciating (generally speaking, attractive women are perfectly capable of swimming. It's the little kids we worry about). I try to be as discreet as possible though, no more than a quick glance; just as long as it would take to normally ensure their airway is open. Some of my other lifeguard friends aren't nearly as discreet, and think the sunglasses part of the uniform entitles them to stare.
 
I don't stare. I'm usually deep in thought about something.
 
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