I don't understand why people play civ on quick speed. It's like turn-based red alert
I play epic speed using a planet generator map script. The map is significantly larger than huge

35 civs (using Fall Further: all leaders with the exception of Auric, Thessa and Kandros Fir).
I use: No Tribal Villages, Wildlands, Blessings of Amathaon (due to the size of the map), Living World and Compact Enforced (I'm not a fan of the turtling angel/demon civs). Raging barbarians is suicide on maps this large. Often there is a big chunk of empty space where super-armies are spawned with raging barbs
You can play around with lots of cool settings in the planet generator map script, though it can take a short while to actually create the map. It's well worth the wait though
Al