StargazingDog
Prince
I'm halfway through my current game and I do find this to be the case. War support penalty is trivial. That said, razing just feels wrong unless it is a 1-2 pop town.So razing city penalty seems like a much smaller penalty than taking a city that goes over your city limit?
I've resorted to making peace deals and actually refusing the settlements the AI offers. I can't handle them. In my current game, I am four over the cap and just barely hanging on. The main cities are fine. It's the smaller towns that are angry.
One thing I will do differently in my next game is not retaliate when war is declared on me. I will just defend, kill units, pillage, but not capture a city unless it is a very strong city. Be more selective in general.