Thanks for the game - it was a load of fun.
I think I really lucked out with my starting position ... on a small bulb of land that had 1 choke point. I threw down lots of cities on the coast, landed The Great Light house and a religious shrine (these both paid for my tech). Then catching the person to my North with lightly defended cities - he was on a similar bulb so after taking his land, I still only had a small choke point.
The war declaration from bj totally caught me by surprise, but he was unlucky that I was close to some critical techs (Machinery for crossbows and, more importantly Engineering for 3 tile movement and pikes). The one mistake I think he made was siting on that tile for ages effectively doing nothing. He should have either gone around the city, or tried to take it. In the end, he just gave me a chance to get lots of XPs when I wiped out his army.
At that point, my tech rate was really rocking, I had a large standing army and it was just a matter of time. I really liked the suicide attacks against my coastal cities from Portugal (Dreylin in control at that stage) ... a great example of being over confident and being punished for it.
I will not be able to participate in Fresh XXXX but I certainly enjoyed my time with this game. Thanks all. And thanks for Dreylin for stepping in and seeing this game to its conclusion.