I honestly don't understand how multiplayer for games like Civ or Europa Universalis can be successful. It requires immense time commitment and coordination—something that most people with families and work/social life can't really have, unless they put gaming before everything else. I am single and definitely spend time on my games, but I also don't want to be in situations where I have to commit to a multiplayer game and then leave or something. I also plan to have kids one day, and I just don't see how multiplayer would be viable then... unless you play with your partner or something.

I also like a reload or two on the occasion.
When I want multiplayer experience, I go play games designed for multiplayer in the first place, like LoL, Fortnite, DotA, Overwatch, etc.