What have you been doing for 94 turns ?
As much as I can (i.e. not enough)

I reckon I don't chop enough in the early game to rush production. I'm basically averse to it because I see it as wasteful in the long run, but I need to train myself to see the early game as more important.

I see the difference, you progressed a lot in 1 day. I usually play 10-20 turns per day. (and every 10 turns spend like an hour to make plans, sometimes many hours googling stuff i need to know for those plans) I think honestly that is the biggest difference between playing deity or medium levels. If i just click trough stuff rather quickly, it can indeed be rather hard. Espescially the first 100 turns are important. After playing 100turns carefully, i usually am in a good enough position (and getting bored of the game) that i start clicking trough. After playing a bunch of games like this and googling everything in the process, it starts to go a bit faster. Still, "fear the next turn button" is the correct mindset.