The problem can kinda be broken down into two parts.
In single player, I like to play peacefully. I generally can stay out of trouble with the other nations and peacefully expand my empire until around 1000 AD or so, where someone will declare war on me for almost no reason (Napoleon and I were Friendly, and he declared war on me for 'insulting the French Empire').
Thing is, I'm terrible at war. Once they declare war on me, they storm my borders with huge stacks of units. Napoleon once sent a stack of 3 Knights, 4 Macemen, and 2 Catapults to attack my border city, but not before razing everything around it. I have a bad habit of just leaving my military units sitting on my cities to guard it, leaving my improvements to be ransacked. Real bad habit, but I can't help it, I'm paranoid that a lack of city defense will ruin me.
Don't even get me started on multiplayer. I always tend to have someone start war on me early, and I get rushed. I always play too passively, even when I don't mean to.
I have the mindset where if I declare war on someone, it'll start a chain reaction that'll either lead to my enemy calling in friends, or I'll get trounced. I also tend to hold off on Archery until I get some basic techs, like Agriculture, Hunting, The Wheel, etc which often leaves me vulnerable to rushes by Archers and Axemen.
TL;DR: I always tend to play too passively and I need tips on how to improve my war game.
In single player, I like to play peacefully. I generally can stay out of trouble with the other nations and peacefully expand my empire until around 1000 AD or so, where someone will declare war on me for almost no reason (Napoleon and I were Friendly, and he declared war on me for 'insulting the French Empire').
Thing is, I'm terrible at war. Once they declare war on me, they storm my borders with huge stacks of units. Napoleon once sent a stack of 3 Knights, 4 Macemen, and 2 Catapults to attack my border city, but not before razing everything around it. I have a bad habit of just leaving my military units sitting on my cities to guard it, leaving my improvements to be ransacked. Real bad habit, but I can't help it, I'm paranoid that a lack of city defense will ruin me.
Don't even get me started on multiplayer. I always tend to have someone start war on me early, and I get rushed. I always play too passively, even when I don't mean to.
I have the mindset where if I declare war on someone, it'll start a chain reaction that'll either lead to my enemy calling in friends, or I'll get trounced. I also tend to hold off on Archery until I get some basic techs, like Agriculture, Hunting, The Wheel, etc which often leaves me vulnerable to rushes by Archers and Axemen.
TL;DR: I always tend to play too passively and I need tips on how to improve my war game.