I got pretty good at cultural victories on Prince level, but King is just killing me. I'm hoping for some suggestions to get me out of this.
First off: Civ 5, G&K. I usually play Napoleon for the culture bonus. Only other thing I do is change the # of other civs down to 4 (this seemed to be a good strategy for learning a new difficulty level in Civ 4, maybe it's a problem in Civ 5?)
Anyway, I always seem to reach the same stalemate right around the Pikeman/Musketeer range: I'm going along fine, with between 4 & 6 cities, working on culture, keeping up my military just enough so that I'm not a sitting duck for other civs. I'm playing nice with the other civs, trading, even sometimes giving them gifts to try to butter them up. I'm friends with the one or two who are around me. I'm being very careful not to settle too close to them or do anything to piss them off.
Then BANG! One of my friendly civs declares war on me, usually right around when they get pikemen. We go into a long, drawn-out war because we're pretty well matched. They attack a city, I fight them off, they retreat. Depending on the Civ, they may or may not offer a peace agreement, most often not. But inevitably they come back and attack again, after regrouping and maybe finding one or two more units.
So I'm stuck putting a ton of resources into military, just to keep from being taken over, and my cultural stuff goes by the wayside. Meanwhile, some other civ across the ocean is kicking both me and the attacking civ's butt because they're not stuck in some long drawn-out war.
This has happened about 5 or 6 times now, I keep trying different strategies (attacking them first/trying to be nicer/trying to get ahead of them militarily/just restarting the game when Caesar or another really warlike civ shows up next to me) and nothing I do seems to help. It's beginning to be just not fun for me - what am I doing wrong?
First off: Civ 5, G&K. I usually play Napoleon for the culture bonus. Only other thing I do is change the # of other civs down to 4 (this seemed to be a good strategy for learning a new difficulty level in Civ 4, maybe it's a problem in Civ 5?)
Anyway, I always seem to reach the same stalemate right around the Pikeman/Musketeer range: I'm going along fine, with between 4 & 6 cities, working on culture, keeping up my military just enough so that I'm not a sitting duck for other civs. I'm playing nice with the other civs, trading, even sometimes giving them gifts to try to butter them up. I'm friends with the one or two who are around me. I'm being very careful not to settle too close to them or do anything to piss them off.
Then BANG! One of my friendly civs declares war on me, usually right around when they get pikemen. We go into a long, drawn-out war because we're pretty well matched. They attack a city, I fight them off, they retreat. Depending on the Civ, they may or may not offer a peace agreement, most often not. But inevitably they come back and attack again, after regrouping and maybe finding one or two more units.
So I'm stuck putting a ton of resources into military, just to keep from being taken over, and my cultural stuff goes by the wayside. Meanwhile, some other civ across the ocean is kicking both me and the attacking civ's butt because they're not stuck in some long drawn-out war.
This has happened about 5 or 6 times now, I keep trying different strategies (attacking them first/trying to be nicer/trying to get ahead of them militarily/just restarting the game when Caesar or another really warlike civ shows up next to me) and nothing I do seems to help. It's beginning to be just not fun for me - what am I doing wrong?