AdMech
Chieftain
Your post has given me some things to think about, since I never really had the urge to try small. I play large maps almost exclusively - I like the epic scope, as others have said, and I want to feel like I'm really guiding a nation through history! My favorite part of the game is exploration-settlement-expansion, too, and large maps extend that.

That's true, and the one problem with my approach to Civ. I love 20-30 hour games, where I can really get absorbed in the (virtual) world, but I almost never finish them once it's become clear that I'd have to tediously go through and raze every damn enemy city. (Although you can get them to capitulate on occasion.) Cultural or technology victories don't suffer from these problems, but I'm a hopeless warmonger due to a.) not being good at it (I subconsciously go for a "culture monster" every time) and b.) playing too many other strategy games exclusively about war... it's become ingrained in me.And the game is fun mostly in early stages, when your decisions matter a lot. Later it gets pretty tedious, and on larger maps (imho) totally boring. I nearly never finish those games, once the whole continent is mine and enemies can't do a damn thing (or the enemy is too big on another continent and upcoming war would be a eternity of "destroying a few towns-getting kicked out of his motherland eventually-arriving there again to destroy what he has rebuilt in settling-spree-rinse repeat".
