... and our news isn't full of news of our sons and daughters dying off in foreign lands while massacring tens of thousands of noncombatants ...
Given my first-hand experience in the subject, I found this to be personally offensive; but maybe I'm wrong in assuming this was a reference to OEF/OIF. If you were talking about that, you need to understand a few points.
First, Canada was one of the more involved peacekeeping players in both theaters; involved through both the ISAF (International Security Assistance Force) and through direct involvement in OEF.
Second, On a per-troop basis, Canada has about an equal attrition rate as the US; with some years actually being higher. The difference is, the US just had thousands of troops compared to Canada's ~1000.
Third, much like the word "Proof", most people don't really understand the significance or definition of "non combatant"; particularly, the civilians who don't see how the "non-combatants" act. If you see someone planting IED's along a roadside, they still count as a non-combatant. If someone shoots at ISAF forces, drops their gun, and runs away... they become a non-combatant. Another common instance is when these self-proclaimed non-combatants use
actual non-combatants as "shields" to protect themselves while they shoot at coalition forces. If someone is coordinating attacks on coalition forces, but never picks up a gun- they are still a "non-combatant", but are still more dangerous than any of the people on the ground; and both the media
and the locals are more than willing to proclaim that we are killing "innocent" people. The phrase you
should be hearing is "previously hostile unlawful combatants."
Fourth, you don't seem to understand what the concept of "massacre" is. Your civilian buddies may not know the difference, but being that I am one of the people you are accusing of "massacre", it's obvious to me that you have no idea what it is you are talking about. I am almost entirely certain that you have never served overseas, and I have a hard time imagining that you know anyone who has
actually been involved in either war. You seem to be suggesting that we ride around in helicopters and tanks blowing up houses and killing families for amusement. This isn't Vietnam, the media just likes to pretend that it is.
Your poor choice in words demonstrates a complete ignorance on the subject, and a dependency on the news for your misinformation. It's both saddening and offensive, and frankly it disgusts me every time i see people regurgitate that line like it's their own original, educated and informed opinion.