AmbientOrange
"'1. My question is... If i remember first civ had such option to watch all the time who is in the lead in wonders in army in culture in researches. As i look in those advisors they dont provide much information at all."
Not sure if you mean Civ III vanilla as first or you are talking about Civ I. In III, all versions you can use F7 to see what is known about wonders. IOW who owns any completed one. Who is currently building wonders and which ones. You will not know how close they are to be finished
"2. almost always then they suggest some negotiations they always look absurd. ( peace threat + gold ) if its some technology then i must give gold always, so i dont even bother to read what they suggest and because of that.
And they seem to have allies with each other as im being left alone to rampage all of them

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This is normal in Civ III, all versions. The deals are not really as bad as you first see them. This is because you are not considering all the factors.
1) any wonders associated with the tech
2) any units
3) any government
How much it is worth in beakers. How many beakers you or they have in at that point. IOW if you have paid 1/2 the cost already. How many people know the tech, which alters it true worth.
Allies cost money or stuff such as lux or tech. If you are behind, you tend to not have stuff to give and those ahead tend to have stuff to pay. Even if you have stuff, you have to be first to act and other things go into the equations.
"3. Anywhere is some video vault with your comments ?

this would prove usefull, as i would like to see how other plays. Also somehow to see what other things of my tactics and so on. ( right now im playing with "perfect" tactic and its not doing well

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There is a vid of a deity tiny map, but it is not instructive. Look for things like my Regent tutorial or SG's to read.
"hehe.Any comments about my tactics? ( i like to play with xerxes(its babylonian.. i forgot)) and ussually i build nice cities and i take care of shields and then i build immortals and it takes too much time to play this way.Maybe i build too much wonders but they seem so cheap ( 50 30 turns ) and it takes a lot of time to have 2immortals in each city + to make a nice army of 5.
This is slow.Any comments?

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Xerk is Persian and has the Immortals. Hami is Babylonian and has the Bowman. I wrote many a response to these tactics in the past. If you cannot make an immortal in 4-6 turns, try mines.
"P.S. i strugled a bit more but decided to loose the game so trade all cities and let invade my last empty city. By statistics i had 3times bigger culture, and about equal power and score.But i just wasnt been able to invade others at all.Also im not sure if i was very slow in technology tree progression.Where to watch that?"
Again read some of the recent games that asked for help. Post a save for evaluation.