That had something to do with certain Kaz diplomats, imo

. From my perspective the official messages were much better than the chats still; if anything, it was our chats with different "ambassadors" that seemed to anger/confuse them - and a little so for other teams we dealt with perhaps.
That said, I was against my team being "loyal" to Kaz too as you would put it the whole time, and would rather have backstabbed Kaz when a chance appeared -though I wasn't around long enough into the game for that to become a factor, but we didn't follow through on a backstab anyway!
At any rate, I'm still expecting at least a couple of other teams to want to do the "roleplaying" thing. Personally I would pay more heed to a threat like the Mavericks (would rather take them out if at all possible) but we shouldn't count them all out, may have to adapt to their styles and I agree trying to have diplomacy first and foremost clearly express aims and goals is desirable. But The roleplaying facade (or not a facade per se, I'm ok with that too) can be useful still imo.
And lastly, people don't act rationally and I certainly wouldn't be surprised, if rules and settings like Vassals/PAs/city gifting are allowed that it would pay off to be friendly and popular - when it comes down to one civ getting defeated and wanting to quit/give up the ghost to another team sometimes it pays to not have ticked off their players to the last man.
But anyway, I should stress most importantly - I'm willing to work within the framework we collectively like, I'm not trying to be picky here, and with the time I have available would help out in any role. Tell me to participate in roleplaying/jolly good fun and that'd be great, or ask me to just be straight and simple, or avoid diplomacy altogether cause someone else is already chosen to represent that - it's all fine I think. I very much hope we have a nice democratic structure in the team making decisions throughout, and will try my part for that to carry through, so we don't get stuck with few players being overwhelmed due to other inactivity. I'd expect most things will develop as the game goes on anyway, so perhaps I or the rest of us should just get around to coming up with some better thoughts on other pre-game discussions and choosing a civ and such planning and all.