And you were obviously absent from Fallujah. And never read about Leningrad, or the Tet Offensive.
Ok a history lesson:
The petty bit: Leningrad and Tet weren't in the last 10yrs.
The proper bit: Leningrad: This was attacked for the following reasons, Hitler, was obsessed with the destruction of Communism. And Leningrad was the "birthplace" of communism and had the name of the current leader! therefore having Cultural significance beyond strategy. But, it was also the Home of the Baltic fleet and also had a huge arms and ammunition manufacturing complex (11% of all soviet output). So in this sense it also had a Stragegic, Tactical and Cultural importance. Therefore it would make sense to attempt to assault and destroy the city as bombing capability, then, was insificient to destroy the city alone.
Tet offensive: This was a massive simultaneous attack on the HQs, and over 100 towns towns and cities across the whole country. Militarily, it failed. The most significant successes for the VietCong were Hue, of Cutural significance to the Vietcong and around KheSanh, please note
around KheSanh. Again trying to defeat the enemy in the field. They attacked the towns and cities in the Tet offensive without controlling the ground around them, no surprises that they failed, in my book. Overall, this action has been credited as the turning point in US policy about the Vietnam Campaign.
Both of these actions could easily repeated, with a bit of poetic license, within Civ4. (if you squint your eyes slightly....lol)
Fallujah. The "war" was over, this was an uprising, the mayor was Pro-American and invited the American troops in, this wasnt liked by the locals who rose up. This too is sort of repeated within Civ 4 when a City goes into revolt and the occupying units within it, take a hit.
It was insane to go into downtown Mogadishu to apprehend people the U.N. wanted apprehended there, but Americans did it, at great cost on both sides of the conflict.
This was not a war, it was an arrest mission
A point raised here, obliquely, I would like to see in Civ 5 is insurgeant forces, which I see as being as very expensive, could "invade" other countries without the sponsoring nation to declare war, a bit like spies, and could help cause cities to go into revolt, or attack military units, or destroy infrastructure, or destroy the occupying culture and possibly other things.