alright, finished reading the other TNT diplo threads last night, but was too tired to comment, so i'll do so now:
i'm curious, what specific actions that we made led you to believe we were playing the game ineptly or foolishly?
just thought i should point out, that i was a strong voice for attacking KISS cities and trying to kick them off our continent. i was convinced (and still do believe) that if we let KISS keep cities on our continent, it wouldn't matter what we do the rest of the game, as they would have a foothold on our land and be able to ship units over with ease and could attack and kill us with no problem in the future. as the war dragged on however, BCLG, who was our diplomat with KISS, started pushing for peace with them, even though it heavily favored KISS. the deal was we would give them all techs we research for 50 (don't remember exactly) or so turns and agree not to settle any further east past where the KISS colonies and TNT borders met.
now, concerning the earlier D'Nut war:
we started the war at the behest of Provo, however most of us were in agreement, so Provo's Folly is a bit harsh. we declared on D'nuts to grab their worker and then moved next to their 2nd or 3rd city, which was empty. they abandonded it, and we retreated our warrior, waiting for our Immortals to be upgraded, so they could move south and knock d'nuts out of the game. we would've won the war, as we had more cities, were more developed, and they only had their cap and maybe one other city left. however, bad RNG rolls killed many of our Immortals and they soon were able to field MWs, which the combat zone back towards the mountains and the border of the Sacred Jungle. we probably should've made peace once a stalemate was reached, but here Provo was stubborn, not recognizing a failed plan in his face. unfortunately, we couldn't reign him in in time, not until he left the game did we start making efforts to sign peace with D'Nuts. of course, we know they needed to quench their thirst for blood, so they razed 2 of our cities and made peace. hope this clears some stuff up.
p.s. will post more later if think of anything else to comment on