Ecofarm
Deity
I think the random events are pretty reasonable (including the hero). I would play with "Living World" if so many other players didn't object to the randomness. I think the current random events are flavorful and not game unbalancing - except maybe the rampaging giant monkeys, they can really ruin someone even if they rarely enter culture.
Is it possible to turn off random events?
And besides if you don't like the event then turn random events off for multiplayer,
Is it possible to turn off random events?