"My point is, don't automatically blast suburbs, some people like living there. It is simply a different mindset from your own."
Understood. If it was me you were talking about, I wasn't meaning to "blast" them, just give my own experienced opinion about them.
One good thing about the city neighborhood I live in is that I can walk to a lot of places--the corner grocery store, lots of good restaurants (authentic Mexican ones seem to predominate in my neighboorhood, as there are many Mexicans living around me--and I LOVE good Mexican food), book stores, even the Target store (a discount chain headquartered in the Twin Cities) is within walking distance. Meaning I don't have to get out and drive everywhere, which in winter means scraping ice or brushing snow off the car all the time (true, garages are nice though). And although I don't get into ballets or Starbucks (there are lots of Starbucks in the burbs too), there are certainly many other things close by that I DO get into. Cities offer things to ALL tastes, not just the "hip" and pretentious

. Only things cities don't have is large, pristine areas of wilderness (the parks and lakes of Minneapolis are the closest my city gets to this).
THAT is what the country has--well that depends. Farm country doesn't, but wooded or mountainous country (which I'd prefer) does. But small towns and isolated rural areas tend to have more people who actually get to know you, and look out for you. Plus the pace of life is slower and easier, something that I miss from time to time. Plus there's all those benefits you mentioned of having the privacy of a house and lots of land between your neighbors.
Drawbacks of cities are the faster, more stressful pace; not knowing too many of your neighbors; the "detatchedness" of everybody from everyone else (well, SOMETIMES this is a benefit, but lots of times it isn't); the poorer air quality; the noise; and the lack of lots of open living space.
Drawbacks of the country are having to drive everywhere (within town limits, this isn't the case, but the small towns don't always have what you're looking for either), sometimes TO the city for certain things; people that sometimes get TOO "into" your business (but cities have their busibodies too); lack of anonymity when sometimes that is what you want; and fewer job opportunities.
Suburbs seem to have ALL the drawbacks of the cities, plus the driving drawbacks of the country (although the distances are less, the traffic can make up for that). You said there were woods and deer in your backyard--I guess the suburbs I have grown up in weren't like that. You must live WAY out from the city--most suburbs even ten or fifteen miles from the cities here are filled with rows of houses that all look alike, and are pretty close together too. Then there are all the strip malls where you must park a hundred yards from the store itself, then when you leave you're scanning for your car amidst so many others that look alike.... And those strip malls, IMHO anyway, are just so butt-ugly--nothing original about the architecture (I guess I like good architecture--wanted to be an architect once). Rush-hour commutes--need I say more? Around here they can get nasty.... And as I in particular hate traffic (in the cities, I take back streets if the traffic is bad on the main ones, whereas in the burbs it is often impossible to get very far on the back streets), I think that is the WORST drawback.
I guess I'm an "all or nothing" kind of guy though--and the burbs are just big "grey areas" in between to me. But that's just me. When I have a wife and kids, I may find them more suitable though (although DAMN those commutes too, I wanna get home and see my kids more!).