okay so it's been a few days so i can begin to think clearly.
so what's been happening is that i used to live with a guy, let's call him nathan. me and my roommate (let's call him thomas) knew that nathan had left school in january 13 as a result of his pretty manic depression. we understood that risk when we got an apartment for the three of us. the first month and a half was fine for the three of us, until nathan had, from my point of view, to be a nervous breakdown and had to leave school (again). we informed our landlord that nathan left and he told nathan to wait paying for his rent.
since late september, we've been looking for a new guy to come in. unfortunately, nathan left at the worst time since there's no one (at least no student) looking for housing in october. we've had a few contacts but none of them seemed worthy enough.
fast forward to about a week ago. our landlord sent us a letter asking what's happening to nathan's rent and whether we want to re-sign the apartment for next year (which we very much do). we ask him on facebook what he's been doing with the rent money but he didn't reply (despite thomas and i knowing he'd seen it). a few days later, things come to a head when our landlord calls us and asks again what happened to nathan's rent. thomas and i call nathan's father and he tells us that hasn't been paying because our landlord may or may not have told him that his family need not pay for the backrent.
we immediately call our landlord and ask him about whether he said that or not. he didn't give a very straight answer but did say that nathan's backrent of ~$2000 dollars is entirely thomas' and my problem. i flipped out because the lease runs until the end of july, and the backrent by then would be about $5000.
we've had a guy come and visit the room we're selling. he seemed initially really receptive and said he could move in immediately (which would save us $3000 bucks). we give him a friendly rate for the room. but then he hardballs us really hard and lowers his asking price $50 or about 15%. thomas and i are really upset because that would mean our rents would be higher (i would be paying $100 more to live in a comparably sized room in the same apartment).
the last few days have trying to figure out what the hell we're supposed to do. thomas' mom is trying to get a case against nathan so we don't have to pay for the money but his family hates us know because, i think, nathan is blaming us for his manic depression, which made his family hate thomas and i. so getting the money out of them can only happen through court.
however, if our landlord DID say that nathan didn't have to pay for his rent our case becomes pretty weak, and would require us to, essentially, void the lease. thomas and i read over the lease and realized that any half decent lawyer could tear the lease to shreds (it's horribly written). so here's our trilemma:
1. sue nathan's family for the money (unlikely to work)
2. sue our landlord (no housing for next year)
3. bite the bullet and split the backrent.
we went back to the guy who was mulling offer and give him everything he wants. i get an email back yesterday that he's not accepting his own effing offer.
so thomas and i are stuck.