For what it's worth as a reminder, there is only One, that can judge.
So, don't worry about what others tell you, don't worry about what a website says, meh... don't sweat it.
Just do what's right, and you'll be judged accordingly. Best part is, everyone knows where they stand. It's built in. All you have to do, is block out the noise, and listen within and this answer is right there inside you.
[/deep thoughts]