- but what a struggle!
Founded Christianity in 525bc, build AP in 225bc, spread Christianity to everyone in 100bc.
I choose Peter as my friend, spread Christianity to a few more of his cities and tried to make him happy, and here things started to go wrong.
I figured (guessed) I needed Peter at +8 for him to vote for me, so I had to work on our trade-relations
How do you get these guys to like you enough and how much is enough?
First vote around 50AD our borders sparked too much tension, and the same turn Mao and Napy declared war!
I was prepared with a bunch of archers, and the funny thing was, Napy kept lurking around in the woods with his large stacks, without attacking or pillaging at all for a very long time.
The years went by and Peter and I grew a bit more fond of each other, and after a few more votes everything was set up.
Then he petrayed me on the turn of the election and adopted Free Religion, and my +3 for sharing his religion was gone.
Well he was my only friend so I had to stick with him and a few turns later I adopted Bureaucracy, his favourite civic and we were best buddies again when the vote came up, and guess what? 50 turns had passed and I got elected Resident of the AP
OK ten more turns to Victory - in my dreams!!!
Meanwhile the warfare had put me down to Thebes as my only city and when the vote came up Pete and I didn't have enough votes.
Making peace, founding more cities and gifting Peter a lot of Christian missionaries finally did the job 10 (or was it 20 or 30 or...?) years later.
And this brings me back to my question:
How do you get these guys to like you enough and how much is enough?![]()
+8 is enough. Now, +8 including visible and invisible parameters. Read the thread "AI attitude explained".
peace +1, OB +2 and gifts +4 already puts you on +7. Get 4 more (to account for border tension and for a invisible -2) and you are done.
Now, I don't understand your situation. You built Christian AP? You sent tons of Christian missionaries to Peter? You had +3 for sharing religion so he was Christian?
Then, had he not changed to FR, he would have been your rival in the election

Have I missed something?