Well, I already mentioned losing the GW by 1 turn in the early spoiler. However, I handled the barbs just fine and it was fun jacking up the experience on units. Still the constant barbs do slow things down and distract you from your goals. So I slowly expand by settling and taking out a few barbs cities, blocking off a nice empire N-to-S near SB and all the west.
Alex surprise attacks me in the early ADs and actually takes my eastern most city at the time which I take back shortly after. We fight for a while and I get peace. He would attack unsuccessfully again later. In the meantime, I'm fostering great relations with Sully and decent with SB with the intent of using them as buffers or bribing into war. So around the late ADs it gets real interesting:
First, I win LIb of course and generally have a very nice tech lead - Ox is about in. My goal being to get to Curs and then let everyone have it. I had the opportunity to bribe the Otts into war but I decided to delay this until I was fully prepared. So this is where the dominos fall. Not really paying close attention to the eastern AIs, I suddenly realize VERY quickly that Sury has turned into and absolute monster. I knew he had a war or two with Wash and HC, but all of a sudden in a matter of a very few turns he caps by Wash and HC and then for some ungodly reason Sillyman peace vassals too him.
Sury has a tremendous amount of land. My tech lead is still strong but I'm still a ways from steel and MT when Sury DOWs. I'm talking massive waves of stacks from Khmer, one after the other and, of course, occasional SoDs from HC, America and the Otts. Tech is at a standstill and this war literally lasts more than a milenium with absolutely nothing I could do about it. Sury always demands my HE city. Well, despite the massive amount of units and the fact that I had to virtually turn of research, I don't lose a city and kill off tons of his units. The fact that I got to steel way ahead helped, but I could never climb out of this huge hole.
Later on, combined efforts with SB allowed me to cap the Otts, after Silly broke away when I dropped SUry's power and then I slowly push my borders east. Sury and I must of Dow'd on each other like 10 times at least. However, this just turned into a very long drawn out war and peace of attrition and I just feel further behind in techs. I was even setting up nukes and did nuke away some Khmer/Incan cites, but Sury built the SDI and that just became a waste.
I retired in the mid to late 1900s leading in score after what at first was a fun game but gradually grew extremely frustrating. I just didn't feel like dragging this thing out further although I still probably could have won the game.