Basically, after losing countless times on Noble difficulty, I decided I need help 
I usually lose on my first war, a neighbouring empire will attack with a massive stack of units, and either completely destroy me or decimate my country enough that recovering would be impossible.
I've checked all the guides I can find, and as far as I know i'm doing everything ok, not too many cities, no lavish spending, going for the right technologies...
Yet at noble I have never won a single game, it seems I am constantly at war and I never have time to build a big enough army to stop it or get culture/technologies for other victories.
It seems as if I'm doing something wrong, and its always on the earlier periods. Does anyone have some much needed advise? I pretty much know all about how the game works, but just my strategy is lacking

I usually lose on my first war, a neighbouring empire will attack with a massive stack of units, and either completely destroy me or decimate my country enough that recovering would be impossible.
I've checked all the guides I can find, and as far as I know i'm doing everything ok, not too many cities, no lavish spending, going for the right technologies...
Yet at noble I have never won a single game, it seems I am constantly at war and I never have time to build a big enough army to stop it or get culture/technologies for other victories.
It seems as if I'm doing something wrong, and its always on the earlier periods. Does anyone have some much needed advise? I pretty much know all about how the game works, but just my strategy is lacking
