Random ramblings. I can't do more than this right now because it is really frustrating going over the same ground time and again to no avail.
Im sad you feel like no one is listening to you, because I think I understand fully what you are trying to say, and I am convinced of most of it. I still disagree with a few things.
A model for the alliance: Yes, I think we need to be married to Team Cav right now.
Yes I agree with this and your illustration was an excellent, spot on analogy. It made the issue very clear...
Enforcement: It's a lawless world we live in so ultimately we must either trust our partner or not have any partners. It's really as simple as that.
Agreed. There is no way to enforce anything... We should really drop discussion of enforcement. The only way to
punish a refusal to bring the alliance into balance, is to leave the alliance... which would be a poor remedy for the team that is behind in the balance of power.
Showing trust: Sommer's says that if Team Cav really, really wants this marriage kind of alliance then they should already be charging to our aid against SANCTA. Well, Team Cav proposed to us and we haven't said yes or no yet.
I stand by my statement that they should be contributing units to the war. This is where we disagree, Donsig... We "said yes" already. Our union (what we affectionately refer to as the CavKaz treaty) was solemnized way back in 2080BC (Turn 48) . The treaty reads in relevant part:
§0. Treaty Duration and cancellation terms
* This treaty will last indefinitely, and can only be cancelled by written notice 20 turns in advance.
You may respond, well the treaty dosen't say anything about contributing units or declaring war on aggressors against the other CavKaz nation, but the treaty also does not say anything about being obligated to gift tech on request, does it? What is does say, is that the alliance is permanent (like marriage) unless canceled, in writing, with notice (like divorce).
Cavalieros whole argument about us gifting tech was based on the premise that tech gifting was the act of a "marriage" type alliance and if we wanted to be
married , then we should gift tech. Since we gifted tech as they wished, this was proof that we accepted the "marriage" type interpretation of the alliance that they proposed.
You seem to be saying that we are
married when it's time to gift tech, but we are just
dating when SANCTA attacks us.
Withholding techs: We have withheld techs. We still have aesthetics and hunting and they don't. Why are we waiting for them to ask for these techs?
We are "waiting" for them to ask for the tech because we (Cav and Kaz) are still foolishly trying to hide the alliance from SANCTA. The original reason Cavalieros instructed us NOT to gift hunting, was because if we did, SANCTA would be aware of the alliance. C'mon Don, you know this... Please stop trying to imply that we are holding back tech from Cavalieros. You know as well as I do, that if Cavalieros asked us to gift Aesthetics AND Hunting this turn, we would do so without hesitation.
The balance of power: This is a goal for the end of the alliance not for right now.
Yes, this should be obvious to everyone.
Defining the balance of power: I understand the desire to have the definition all set down in black and white but I don't think that can be done right now.
I agree.
Jockeying for endgame position: It would then boil down to whoever had the better endgame strategy and who did a better job of negotiating a balance of power that was actually in their favor.
Agreed.
Ending the alliance prematurely: There is no guarantee the alliance will hold together.
I agree and think this is related to the enforcement issue. We have to trust our ally to some extent. Trust but verify. I want them to verify that they want to stay "married" by protecting their spouse when she gets attacked. If my husband lets SANCTA smack me around, what good is he?
Is a long term alliance worth it?
Yes.