I was unaware of how bad some of these multiplayer issues were for the bigger games. I'm a big fan of the Civ MP, but mostly just play 1 v 1, although I plan to play more FFA in the future. One thing that struck me is that u guys have to really love Civ MP a lot to go through all that waiting and OOS, and restarting, just to play the game.
Do u guys who play the large player number games use Comrade or some other IM program to keep track of everyone when u do play LAN games? I would think that would help some with the not knowing which game to rejoin problem. Also, do u ever try to play games more with dedicated ladder players on LANs, but to keep the flavor of the larger games use AI to make up the difference. What I mean is, having a LAN game with like 6 to 8 dedicated players, but use the AI to fill the other 8 or so slots. Now I don't know if this would be acceptable to the gameplay for u guys, jus throwing it out as a suggestion/wondering if u guys did it.
Sounds like u guys who play the large number of people games dont play much 1 v1, lower number FFA, etc. Is this true? If so, why don't u play these type of games more? I always liked that the 1 v 1 , while true can't have all the dynamics of a huge map 14 person game, still eliminated alot of the randomness and luck that would have to come into play when u are in a game that large. And I never found my 1 v 1 games to lack depth or interest (it did get a little tiring playing the tiny map 1 v 1 on ladders, as people were soo good that the games would end soo fast and it didn't seem as fun to me, so I would like to play 1 v 1 on some maps a bit bigger and wiht different start eras to mix it up. Anyway if my rambling has no relevance to what u guys were complaining about, then I am sorry for wasting ur time.