I wasn't very confident about how we would do when I started my turns, but eventually something happened that would completely turn the game around... and in OUR favor, of course!
*pre-turn*
changed Brusa to brax
Sardica to worker
Caesarea to worker
Trebizond to worker
ibt-- 4/4 horse, 4/4 archer, 4/4 horse attack 2 catas and we defeat them all. But then a 'spy' comes out of nowhere and kills one of our weak catas
turn 1, 1068 ad...
*Larissa cata-cata
5/5 cata kills spy, ?/1
talk to all the civs and find out half the civs are stronger than us AND all many of code of laws
ibt- more horses and archers make a weak attempt at taking Sidon back... I also spot a Fatamid ship approaching near an unguarded city, so I take care of that by sending a troop to protect the island (accidentally put a king unit in there

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learn siege craft, go for medieval combat
turn 2, 1071 ad...
*Sinope spear--temple
4/4 cata attacks 4/4 archer, 4/1
New Adrianople founded --worker
switched Attalean settler to catapult
ibt-- 3/3 archer attacks, 3/2 / 3/3 archer attacks, 3/1
turn 3, 1074 ad...
*Attalea catapult--catapult
3/3 dromon v 3/3 curragh, 3/0
GOLDEN AGE
[dance] [dance]
Shields and gold up the wazoo! But make sure to use them wisely!
ibt-- more horses appear for an assault on Sidon
turn 4, 1077 ad...
(the big production turn)
*Caesarea worker--temple
*Ancyra cata--cata
*Const cata--cata
*Nicaea cata--cata
*Smyrna cata--cata
*Trebizond worker--worker
*Prilep spear--temple
Upgrade a horse to cata
demond Bulgars and Magyars to leave our lands, and they do so
ibt-- 3/3 horse, 3/1 - 3/3 archer, 3/0 to an elite and...
WOOT
also a spy dies and a 3/3 horse dies
turn 5, 1080 ad...
*Ephesus cata--cata
*Dyrachhium spear--worker
*Edessa brax--spear
moving workers like crazy, Abbasids army is now considered average to ours by our advisor! It seems their lines are breaking.
9bt-- Good news, according to the advisor there are no longer ANY nations that threaten us directly, and it only gets better

another spy dies, but another one kills a 2/4 cata
turn 6, 1083 ad...
*Corinth cata--cata
*Varna cata--cata
*Heraclea worker--worker
*Samosata spear--worker
3 4/4 catas destroy 2 archers and a spy
now sending army towards Antioch>>>
attacks go like this:
1 4/4 cata deals no damage to a 3/3 spear and dies
5/5 cata v. 3/3 spear, 3/3
4/4 cata v. 3/3 archer, 3/2 and promotes
5/5 cata v. 3/3 spera, 3/2
and bada-bing, the beginning of the end...