hey just a few issues. i dont know if this is even mod related but how come im not getting a boost to relations for being at war with the same civ as another. they care more about me befriending a city-state that they want instead of the 2 wars i fought to literally save their civ. so basically i told them to screw off and they died within 20 turns but it was still annoying. also i declared war on 1 person 1 time and now i am a warmonger? wtf? any way to change these rules a bit?