Listen. I did what you guys told me (Pay the AI's off) and here is what happened...
First met Rome. Payed them (very early into Ancient) 5 GTP (on 40% Science, 10% Happiness, no luxuies, 2 horse, 1 iron, no trade route) then Rome declares war on me.
Meet Celts middle of Ancient. Pay him 8 GTP. gets Military Allience with Rome against me.
Meet Egypt end of Ancient. Pay him 12 GTP. Finally no war. Somehow I have fought off the Romans and Celts. (they had no Horses or Iron

)
Then ROme does war again, (no allience)
Fend him off
Finally they research Nationalism as I research Banking (even after paying civs money for Techs) SInce I had little GTP had little money to buy techs. Strangely after getting peace in wars I was sure to loose I would get techs even though they would have crushed me. Now I have 70% Science to try to catch up (won't take 20 GTP and 100 G for Banking and Chemistry.
(Als only one with SaltPeter, still no luxeries. Most town have 3 Citizens. I am a Despositism)
I am still Winning (sort off...

:cry