Mea culpa, Starlifter, I wrote without properly reading the entirety of your voluminous works. I have also reported you to the Interpol anti pun hotline, and hope they give you life in a sound proof cell for excessive punning.
But my "gripe", as I will put it,is your application of the term "perversion" and "pervert". A single definition from one of many dictionaries (not the sole guardians of the English language) of "an aberrant sexual practice especially when habitual and preferred to NORMAL coitus."
This would be an open and shut case if the same dictionary defined "normal coitus" as strictly heterosexual intercourse. Without access to this work at the present, I cannot say for sure, but most dictionaries I have encountered do not have the term "normal coitus" as a seperate heading.
This brings us to the wonderful word "normal". Can this be applied universally, like good or evil. Not without difficulty, which is why to a great extent it is replaced by "the norm", which does not carry so much of an implicit value judgement (ie there are set forms of behaviour that are normal, and anything outside of this is "abnormal", aberrant, and implicitly wrong)
The term abnormal, when applied to a person, is not generally seen as complimentary or positive.
The term "pervert" definitely is not. It carries with it an unavoidable stigma, and moral judgement of evil. You do not call someone a pervert as a compliment. It is an insult, or a negative label.
The premise that because one dictionary definition of perversion contains reference to "sexual practices especially where habitual and preferred to normal coitus", that this must equal homosexuality being a perversion is a shaky logical concept.
What else can be characterized as a perversion just because it is preferred to normal coitus? Fellatio? Masturbation? Flicking through Playboy? These are all sexaul practices that occur quite a lot, but are not viewed as perversions by the great majority of society, although I haven't done a survey (as I don't want to get slapped, get wierd looks and people think I am sex crazed).
BUT, by the definition you employed and exalted, these are perversions, and as a consequence, all those who engage in them are perverts. I would hazard to guess that this would drag in a large amount of people.
Are they perverts though? Not IMO.
It comes down to the notion that one form of sexual practice, when done legally, between consenting adults, is somehow wrong, whilst another is morally repellent.
That addresses the dictionary definition, and as for it being fact, I would like more than one piece of proof
The word "perversion" is more than a harmless definition, it carries implied moral and social condemnation. Would you let a "pervert" look after your kids? (sorry, cannot say what sort of perversion, as we are applying a blanket definition)
The association of homosexuality with pedophilia, necrophilia and bestiality as all under the label of perversion does imply, unconciously or not, that they are all the same, deserving of the same condemnation.
Pedophilia, necrophilia and bestiality are ALL perversions; anyone will agree. They are all sexual practices that involve exploitation of a usually unwilling party (no way a corpse is going to be able to give consent, animals cannot give legal consent, and children are protected under the law, even though some are manipulated and brainwashed into some form of agreement) Further, they are evil, and proscribed under law. They are probably legally defined as perversions.
But homosexuality cannot be ranked with them, unless it is under the heading of "different from male to female intercourse" Even so, some of these could fit under a male:female definition
"Just because she is dead/a frog/ 4 years old doesn't mean its wrong"
YES, IT DOES.
The stigma and evil associations attached to the label "pervert" are my gripe, as well as the shaky definition. If you were to say 'different from the most widely accepted social form', then it would be fact and true. The practice of homosexuality is not widely spread, and is not carried out by the majority of the community.
But it is not a perversion. This has totally different implications and conotations.
In conclusion, check out these synonyms from a thesaurus:
Perverted: Distorted, twisted, warped, contorted, unbalanced, misconstrued, misconceived, misunderstood; false, faulty, untrue, fallacious, unsound, erroneous, imperfect; degraded, depraved, debased, corrupt, unnatural, abnormal, aberrant, deviant.
All of these words, when applied to a person, cannot be seen as not associating bad, or attaching a moral label.
So, no matter how much the use of "perverted" is qualified with careful explanation, it is a word that always carries a moral stigma and judgement.
(He pauses to put on his dirty overcoat, brush the hairs on his palms, adopt a suitably disgusting yet alluring leer, and heads out to find some of those dead , female four year old frogs

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