No, I guess I dont think its responsible for one spouse to assume the other is going to be grossly irresponsible with a gun. Its just a tool, nothing more, nothing less, and is only as effective as the person using it.
Actually, it's much more effective than the person using it, which is precisely the problem.
Also, I don't see how not wanting a weapon is equal to assume that someone will be irresponsible with it, it's only a point of either (or both) principles and accidents. I'm pretty sure you understand fully the entire idea of "better safe than sorry" when it's not concerning things you have a fetish about.
To me, denying someone that tool if they want one is just silly. I mean to me its just as silly as denying steak knives in the home. Per your logic steak knives should be denied as well - I mean, arent they designed for only one purpose - to cut flesh with extreme ease? Well, yeah. But pretty much everyone would say a spouse denying the other a set of steak knives would be pretty silly. That's how I feel about someone doing the same with a gun.
Btw, according to the FBI database, more people are killed with knives in the USA than assault weapons. Did you know that?
The knife analogy is a very worn and ******** one, and is still as stupid today as it was the day someone invented it.
- First, a knife is much less dangerous than a gun. There is a reason we don't send people to war with a butterknife.
- Second, a knife is a TOOL than can be used as a weapon, while a gun is a weapon, full stop. I hope everybody here is able to understand the difference between a tool (which has a primary use not involving killing) which CAN be used as a weapon, and something which exists ONLY to kill.
- Third, knives are ubiquitous to everyday life. Even in a gun-crazy country like USA, guns are still much less common than something you find on every table and every kitchen in every home and each time in numerous instances. Everyone above the intelligence of a chimp (and probably most people below) is supposed able to understand that if something potentially dangerous is much more common, then it stands to reason that it's probably going to be involved in more fatality than something rare. According to this stupid comparison, tanks are less dangerous than knives because there is less deaths caused by them in USA each year.
If you want to make the analogy less stupid, at the very least try a sword.
It's still stupid because a sword is magnitude less powerful than a gun, but you can argue that a sword is a weapon first and not a tool that can be used as a weapon.
But of course, using a sword also show how idiotic the entire comparison is, so I guess it's the real reason why you don't use it.
Though I can go for stupid analogy too. After all, if it's okay to have a weapon at home, why not allow nuclear bombs to be bought ? As long as it's safely kept in your strongbox and you have a licence, there is no problem right ?