I probably should post this in the newbie area, but, what the hell, no body else does.
When do I stop being a newbie?
I can play on Regent and win sometimes. Should I give up whatever protection I get by admitting I don't know much? I have learned a lot lurking, and people have been so helpful, maybe I should stay a newbie until I die. Is there a generally accepted definition, or does the person decide on his own, or is ti the questions asked that make it obvious?
To help take this out of the newbie area, here is a topic that seems to me to be a valid one for discussion. What is it about CIV3 or spending alot of time online discussing it, that burns out the best players? Like Lt. "Killer' M who is probably not as happy about newbies as he used to be, and Sirian, and... there are lots of people who used to post and now don't. Did they get out of here because they got what they wanted, or they didn't get what they wanted?
Praise is hard to come by these days. Don't see a lot of Thank-you letters, even from people who got Xmas gifts. There is probably a great quote from Mark Twain or someone about expecting gratitude. The one I remember is "If you want a friend in Washington, get a dog." maybe I didn't quite get it right, but the general idea is that if you are providing services to people, the first time it is a gift, after that they think of it as an obligation. If you live near people who say thank you, where is it? I might like to move there.