Agreed 100%, there are certain play styles that intentionally avoid war, the AI could get caught up fighting between themselves, you could spawn on your own island, or you could spawn on a shared continent with lots of room. My issue isn't that it happens sometimes, it's that it happens almost all of the time (I have had one game now with a DoW on me in 2.02, but have had 4 other antiquity runs without any declarations on me), and it happens in situations where they clearly "should" be declaring war. They're penned in and can't expand, we share borders, and they're hostile toward me. I can generally get them to DoW in these situations if I denounce military presence several times, but if I do nothing they almost never declare war.