lurker's comment:
If you don't mind me adding my opinion, this game was still winnable prior to the DOW, possibly still is.
I think as a team you are suffering a lack of confidence, possibly because of a lack of DG experience; the game itself suffered from there not being a cohesive strategy agreed and implimented from the beginning.
I think it would be a mistake to drop back to Emperor on the strength of this one game; maybe looking for a better starting position would help to cushion the added difficulty.
@Overseer: do you remember what I said about TTs game being atypical of DG? Does that make more sense now?