i do agree that copyright protections are a little (or majorly) excessive in the US and maybe in international law. But I think that we should all be able to agree that copyright protections should last more than 8 hours from release.
Most people who pirate can justify piracy in their own minds when it doesn't involve literally shoplifting something from a store. But morally it is the same regardless of scale.
Scale shouldn't matter. Sleeping with someone for $50.00 "feels" different than sleeping with someone for $1,000,000, and most can justify this in their minds. But morally, it is still prostitution.
I do entirely agree that, while legal copyright protection is excessive, practical copyright protection is underpowered. Copyright protection is necessary to encourage creative efforts and to penalize people who violate that intent.
I agree, insofar as individual efforts to justify one's own piracy don't make piracy a moral activity. However (and please pardon me for waxing a bit philosophical): if enough people agree that piracy isn't unethical, doesn't that make it ethical? Consider: as a whole, the US considers the genital mutilation practiced by some African tribes to be unethical. At the same time, as a whole, the US has no problem with male circumcision. For most of human history, girls being married in their early teens was not only ethical, but desirable. No longer the case in the US. Within the last hundred years, it would have been considered morally bankrupt for the government to interfere in the private purchase of firearms. Now, it's considered morally bankrupt to not strictly control private firearm ownership. How do you define - as a society - ethics? The only answer is to go with what most people pretty much think is right and wrong. So the protestations of one college kid who doesn't want to pay for video games don't make him right. The protestations of a large enough portion of society, though, call it into question.
More practically, it would be a wise business move to adapt one's business model to the business environment, rather than trying (and generally failing) to adapt the business environment to the business model. (And actually, IMHO, software companies have been better at doing this than other intellectual property industries. Note that games no longer come with code wheels, or require you to cite the fourth word of the seventh line of page d138 to play)
I guess I don't see, though, what you're saying when referencing scale. Are you saying that, if making a million illicit copies to give to everyone is unethical, then making one illicit copy for yourself is also unethical? Or are you saying that "everybody's doing it" is not legitimate justification?
In the former case, while I see your point, I don't agree. There is a difference, in my mind, between Bernie Goetz, Jeffrey Dahmer (Wisconsin's own!), and Pol Pot. In the latter, I reference my earlier paragraph. If
enough people by into it, it becomes (by definition) ethical. But I could be missing your point entirely.
In any event, all I'm trying to say is that piracy is neither the "Ultimate Evil Den Of Eternal Iniquity And Moral Turpitude Which Will Lead To The Demise Of All Software IN FIRE!!" that some make it out to be. At the same time, piracy also isn't "A Noble Response To The Oppressive Depradations Of THE MAN, Man" that others (often people who just want something for nothing) make it out to be. It is an example of one facet of the new debate that should be going on regarding information, what "ownership" of a non-scarce resource means, and how producers and consumers of information can interact to generate more quality and quantity of content.
In short, the question of piracy is not, in my mind, a question of ethics at all. It's a legal and economic question, regarding how we can craft a system that will work to the greatest benefit of everyone involved. Content creators never being recompensed for the time and effort obviously isn't the answer. Consumers being locked in to using only what EA says they can on only the technology that Microsoft defines via only the channels that Hollywood approves in only the ways BMG thinks they want is equivalently not the answer.
Unfortunately, the current system is perilously close to the latter situation.