Try exploring the settings and turning that stuff off. It exists. Just because you're too lazy to look at the settings tab and turn it off is not a problem you should be amassing to the public about how you 'hate stupid steam'.
Solutions exist and if you spent less time complaining about the 'problem' and actually trying to resolve your issue in a more adult manner, we wouldn't have to be reading your forum spam about the overused hate of steam. In reality, however, your hate of steam really just translates to your lack of the very obvious disregard to the options laid out in the settings tab.