Also, I will never declare war on people that are at "high pleased" status or cancel deals, or stop trading with them - including techs. That doesn't seem too weird but sometimes I run across games like my current one where Japan is in Friendly status and beating me by about 300 points. Actually, they are the leaders of the pack. Followed by India by only 100 points, whom I am also Friendly with. Then Followed by Mansa whom I am at high pleased with. (Almost Friendly.)
They are all almost in the modern age and I am about to finally hit the industrial age. Yet, I don't want to invade. Japan and India are buddies, and my only hope really is that they will start to hate Mansa whom they are across the globe from. (unlikely) I don't think I will be winning this game but maybe I can pull something out of my sleeve. My only real hopes at this point are Diplomatic or Space Race. Although, if invaded either Japan or India my chances for winning would go up significantly.