Yeah, you fall into the majority then for the TBS genre. I think the problem with TBS is that it just takes so long to play a decent game. For instance, I love Marathon games when I play. However, when I go online, I am pretty much forced to play quick/blazing because that is what everyone plays. I could sit there all day hoping 1 or 2 people come along that won't mind playing a marathon game. But I don't have that kind of time to sit around
waiting for the
possibility that I may find a marathon buddy. SO I jump in the all the quick/blazing ones. Not like it matters anyways, as soon as someone is unhappy with how the game is going they quit and you have an AI opponent. Most of the 6-8 player games I start end up as 2-4 players in the first 20-45mins.
Now, eventually when a double pack or some decent deal for vanilla+warlords comes out a friend of mine is probably going to end up picking the game up. Then I will have someone to steady play marathon with. But here is where TBS comes in. The only reason I am sure that I will ever gain someone to play marathon games with is because I know him in RL. That is not a common scenario for most buyers unfortunatley. Now I am just hoping that T2 will stop milking the title and make a double pack this Easter. They may hold off for Christmas which wouldn't shock me really. But holding out past that is marketing suicide IMO.
Anyways, in regards to MP you also have the fact that playing with the general public tends to suck - because everyone is trying so hard to be cool (
talkin smack, using every obsenity in their vocabulary) that hardly anyone ever is. I tell you, log in to the lobby on like a Thursday, Friday, or Saturday night, just to see the chat for 5 mins. You will see the word "faq" with a backwards q tail many times, multiple names for genitals being flung around like they are running down a checklist. And don't forget of course, many, many lame mamma jokes.
Now I ain't trying to start a movement on language in the lobby or nothing. I have a mouth of my own at times but you guys know what I am talkin about. Basic general public on the internet. These are not steady game mates... it's possible to find some good mates after you sift through all the cyber-egos. I am just too busy and perhaps too old to mess with all that anymore. It's just way too much trouble to find anyone from the general public that are a steady gaming mates. Your best bet is ladders but that stuff is taken too serious for my tastes.
In other words, as you say Vsipinen:
I want to play the game when it suits me and not when it is suitable for several other players also.
LOL. I always gotta laugh at the guy in the staging room going:
>ROXORBOY: COME ON!!! WAT R WE WAITING 4?!?!
>ROXORBOY: LAUNCH!!!1
>ROXORBOY: WTH
All names have been changed to protect the identities of those in question.
I don't mind having a game on hold personally. I don't play Civ that much anyways. So I am a pretty relaxed person as far as waiting for when it is suitable for everyone. But I also have the luxury of knowing who I am playing in RL. That is not a common luxury from the sounds of it. Namely with TBS games. Now RTS, I can find people... Heck, even ROXORBOY will be acceptable for me on a RTS. As RTS is waaay too repetative in strategy.