At the very least, if the sum power of my units near the border is less than the sum power of their units near the border, they shouldn't trigger. So yeah, if my army moves towards them, complain. But if you have 5-6 horsemen patrolling the border, I should definitely be allowed to keep a couple pikes and crossbowmen around.
Agree. Anything less than full bilateral equality in diplomacy is, in my opinion, unacceptable. It just looks foolish and breaks all immersion. If the fear is that it will break gameplay, find the work around for god's sake.
Oh, couple of other things I am missing....
1) The option to demand, discuss, and deal that a foreign power STOP an invasion. I know the devs left out the ability to ask a civ to go to war on purpose, but what about the opposite? If France attacks Geneva, I want to be able to warn France to bugger off, even if not Suzerain. Option would be nice.
2) To be able to liberate a city I got in a peace deal... . Isn't this a no-brainer? I went to war to free Zanzibar, because the amenities are so valuable... got it in trade. Can't liberate it. So do I gift it back, then liberate by war? But extending that... maybe be able to negotiate for the liberation of a city without actually having to have an at-war status.
I am finding that many a time I am opening the diplomacy screen and looking for the cause-belli option, and it just ain't there. What the heck? These guys (and gals) are pillaging, looting, raping, and conquering the civilized world, and I can't cause belli them? Its okay to dow a surprise war early on, but as the world gets more
civilized, I can't throw down on Greece for an impromptu invasion of Carthage? I am not allowed to play the role of the
good guy?
And how many missionaries must I suffer through before I can cause belli? Forget denounce... I want to be able to tell Arabia, 'Hey Chucky, you send one more missionary into my borders, I am deep-frying Cairo.' And then Causi Beli. I shouldn't have to wait for a conversion.
Well, I may be off my rocker, but I actually think Mr. Beach and I have similar views about many of the aspects of Civ, and I suspect that some of this will be changing in the months ahead.