Hi Shakabrade,
Sure enough, every game I've played compulsively and/or in a challenging/competitive environment led to a/many burnouts. I sure like a challenge but I sure hate competitions.
So my overall advice would be to try to get a more friendly gaming environment. Even though friendly may be the wrong term. Maybe cool is better.
Do you, and how do you deal with this?
For me, I first had to realize that each turn matters, in order to improve. It's an important but dangerous realization on a TBS game.
To overcome it, the next important realization was that only so much can be done each turn : at a point you gotta click end turn and see what happens. Allowing unforeseen stuff to happen is key, to me.
Planning is enjoyable but tiring. One can learn all the same from a posteriori considerations.
Kossin had a series once that focused exclusively on the first 100 turns of the game. It was a perfect format for me.
Which games do you play instead?
Shogun Total War !!!
Well, it's almost been a year since I last played Shogun, but I sure will give it another go. There is this
1550 Imagawa campaign I wanna do, tear the map open in a blitz and claim dominion over Japan, hahaha ! I already
know my opening for that campaign...
Afaic, I'm done looking for new and perfect games. I did that in my youth and each and every game ended lacking in something (even Morrowind
), so I have my staples.
Civ4, HoMM3, Shogun. I consider RPGs from time to time but I don't want to get involved with those anymore
Chess is a fine contender as well, given playing partners. Playing cards ; we have a kingly card game here in Cantaloupe island (tarot is the name) that is perfect for sleepless nights.
People dependent. I'd say 2 months is enough to heal up one's brains. But then it will be summer and maybe a nap on the riviera with a bottle of wine will be more attractive than playing Civ.