On the subject (as it snowballs out of control) of how offended I am or am not with repeated requests for schedules, updates, compatibility, etc.,
All of the members of the Colonialist Legacies team are volunteers. Nobody's getting paid for this yet.
I personally have a full-time job, a wife, and a child on the way. I'm also in the middle of changing jobs (thank God!) and also looking for a new place to move to because where I'm living now literally doesn't have the space for an infant.
Civ modding takes a lower priority than all of the above.
As for why we're so prickly around here, we're trying desperately to keep on top of the Civ Modding charts (read: below Sukritact and JFD) and yet also keep moving forward. We get frustrated easily because we're overworking ourselves (at least in my case it's almost like I have two jobs, one that I work whenever I should be having time off) and because we are all honestly doing a much worse job at this than what we'd like to be doing.
(e.g., I'd really like to already have the Anishinaabe out. And Malaysia for that matter. And South Africa. And all of the civs having Decisions. This actually really bothers me.)
When someone comes around a pokes us and asks us why we haven't achieved much more than we have, we tend to be growlly angry bears. Or rather, grumpy overworked Walri.
All in all, we're actually really chill and don't hate anyone, but we'd really love it if incoming requests sounded a lot more like "how can I help?" than "how come this isn't done?"
On that note, I'm actively (okay, really passively) looking for good artists, 3d modellers, and people that are willing to do mod compatibility upkeep.