I think your post just doesn't put across your final thoughts very well. It focuses solely on the deficiencies of kamikazes and gives very little mention to the advantages and why it was more practical.
The kamikazes failed to affect US naval strength, as what losses they caused could easily be covered by other assets.
An effective attack run by bombers would be more effective than a kamikaze strike.
An effective bombing run was more difficult to pull off and required a much more skilled pilot or a lot of luck.
Kamikazes were just plain cheap compared to other ways of getting to a ship.
The Japanese simply had no other option by the time they were implemented. Not time or resources to train pilots, no submarines or surface fleets capable of doing the job.
I can't say the actual morale effect, I know it is portrayed in the media as pretty bad, but I refrain from judging that without hard numbers or personal accounts.
Also, imagine the damage that could have been caused by the change in tactics mentioned previously, large numbers hitting loaded transports heading to beaches and infantry crowded on their beachhead. That could have been devastating.
I would also challenge your point that putting F4Us on CAP didn't affect ground support. My knowledge says that they were regularly used as ground support and quite effective in that role, maybe not at hitting hard points, but general support, which at the least would divert dive bombers to strike the harder targets. It is possible that this change occurred later and I am mainly thinking of the Korean War, though.
I don't know anything about F6F's in ground attack roles.
This isn't really important but just a small thing.
I'm pretty certain an RAF pilot used his plane to ram a German bomber during WW2...let me see!
It was a tactic used by all sides, if they really wanted to take out a target they would throw themselves at it. Not to say it was common. Crash your plane into the enemy plane, tank, ship, building, whatever, especially if you have taken damage and don't expect to return home even if you try. Of course, the more desperate you are the more likely you are to do this.
The Germans had at least two programs intending to crash their planes into the enemy. One was hopeful of pilot survival, the other (I believe) was intended as suicidal. neither was deemed effective enough to account for their cost and continue.
Along with this were suicide torpedoes and such used.
All that said no program was used on near the scale, or effect, of the kamikaze attacks or were as publicized in Western media at the time. These make the kamikaze program a completely different thing, and unique at the time.